Sexual Assault
Awareness Month
April, 2010

3 women are murdered by an intimate partner every day in America!
4.8 million American women are physically assaulted every year!

Violence against women has long been a widespread but little known epidemic affecting local, national and international communities alike. But now people like you and me are speaking out about this serious issue, and by raising awareness, are helping to stop violence against women.

To help states, municipalities, agencies and individuals further the goals of the Violence Against Women Act, the US Department of Justice's Office of Violence Against Women has worked with Congress and the President to establish months designated to raise awareness about the four crimes included in the bill: January is Stalking Awareness Month; February is Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month; April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month; and October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

Domestic Violence Awareness Month has been observed nationally for years, but this year's Senate Resolution for Teen Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month, and the widespread observance by states and municipalities has helped raise attention about violence against women to a whole new level. At least 25 Governors and over 200 municipalities in 45 states declared proclamations and resolutions for February's Dating Violence Awareness Month, providing inspiration and opportunities for bringing communities together to address this serious issue.

Now, as a nation, we have an opportunity to continue momentum with April's Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Last year, President Obama issued a Presidential Proclamation for Sexual Assault Awareness Month for the very first time, and because of recent attention on the issue by the media, government and civil society, and with your help, national, state and local participation will be even greater this year.

I learned about violence against women the hard way - my 19 year old daughter Emily was murdered by her ex-boyfriend on April 9, 2009. Please help lead the way to ending violence against women by raising YOUR voice against violence against women.

This April, there are many things that YOU can do to help raise awareness about dating abuse and sexual violence. Here are some ideas:

1) Write to your Mayor and Governor and ask them to join other leaders across the nation in declaring April as Sexual Assault Awareness Month. In most cases, all it takes is a school or nonprofit organization to request it and provide a sample proclamation! (Please ask them to send a copy to StopDatingViolence.org - PO Box 340, Roosevelt, NJ 08555-0340, or send a scan to info@StopDatingViolence.org so that it can be posted on the internet to inspire other communities to do the same.)

3) Ask your school administrator to declare a proclamation for Sexual Assault Awareness Month (Check out the Sexual Assault Resource Center for sample proclamation, step-by-step instructions, and lots of resources for raising awareness.)

2) If your town or state has declared a proclamation, let your local newspaper know about it and why dating violence awareness is important.

3) Wear a teal ribbon (the official color of sexual assault awareness) or a heart on your sleeve (print out free designs at the Have a Heart Campaign website) and when people ask you about it, let them know why violence against women awareness is important to you.

4) Create or print out posters about ending violence against women to display at school or around your community.

5) Participate in the National Dating Pledge Challenge to Stop Dating Violence - hand out FREE Dating Pledge cards.

6) Set up a table on campus or during lunch to hand out Dating Pledge cards and other educational materials about dating abuse and dating violence.

7) Urge your school to establish a Dating Violence Policy if there isn't one already in place.

8) Urge your school to establish a year-round Dating & Sexual Violence Awareness education program.

9) Find out more about the Lindsay Ann Burke Act requiring schools to provide dating violence awareness resources to all students. 6 states have already passed bills - has yours?

10) Find out more:

National Sexual Violence Resource Center's Sexual Assault Awareness Month page

US Dept of Justice's Office of Violence Against Women

US Dept of Defense's Sexual Assault Awareness Month page

National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Center's page

California Coalition Against Sexual Assault's SAAM page

Change.org's page

Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault's page

 

Sample Proclamation:

WHEREAS, sexual assault affects women, children and men of all racial, cultural and economic backgrounds; and

WHEREAS, in addition to the immediate physical and emotional costs, sexual assault may also have associated consequences of post-traumatic stress disorder, substance abuse, depression, homelessness, eating disorders and suicide; and

WHEREAS, sexual assault can be devastating for not only the survivor, but also for the family and friends of the survivor; and

WHEREAS, no one person, organization, agency or community can eliminate sexual assault on their own, but we can work together to educate our entire population about what can be done to prevent sexual assault, support victim/survivors and their significant others, and increase support for agencies providing services to victim/survivors; and

WHEREAS, Sexual Assault Awareness Month provides an excellent opportunity for citizens to learn more about preventing sexual violence;

NOW THEREFORE be it, Resolved, That I, _______________, do hereby proclaim the month of April, 2010, as Sexual Assault Awareness Month in _________.

Please send a copy of your Mayor or Governor's proclamation to StopDatingViolence.org - PO Box 340, Roosevelt, NJ 08555-0340, or send a scan to info@StopDatingViolence.org (Fax- 503-214-6864, but email or mail provide the best image for posting on the site for schools and domestic violence agencies to print)

 

IMPORTANT PHONE NUMBERS

NATIONAL TEEN DATING ABUSE HELPLINE
1-866-331-9474

The National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-SAFE (7233) and 800-787-3224 (TTY).

The National Sexual Assault Hotline
800-656-4673

 

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will help me reach my goal of distributing
1 Million Dating Pledge Cards


in honor of my daughter,
Emily Rachel Silverstein
(June 27, 1989-April 9, 2009)

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Every $5 tax-deductible donation
allows me to reach over 200 young people

 

PROCLAMATIONS
& RESOLUTIONS

Sample
Proclamation

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ARKANSAS
Warren

CALIFORNIA
Pacifica
Sand City
Watsonville

COLORADO
- Governor -

CONNECTICUT
Manchester
Sterling
Windsor Locks

DELAWARE
Wilmington

FLORIDA
Gainesville
Hastings
Largo
Longwood
Niceville
Pinellas Park
Safety Harbor
South Daytona
St. Augustine
Tampa

IOWA
- Governor -
Creston

KENTUCKY
Louisville

MAINE
- Governor -
Long Island
Madawaska
Poland
Portland

MASSACHUSETTS
Rowley

MICHIGAN
- Governor -
Hastings

MONTANA
- Governor -

NEVADA
Yerington

NEW JERSEY
Clark
Eatontown
Little Ferry
Morristown
Ocean Township
Somers Point
Vineland

NEW MEXICO
- Governor -
Estancia

NORTH CAROLINA
Clyde

OHIO
Lorain
Wickliffe

OREGON
- Governor -

RHODE ISLAND
South Kingstown
Warwick

SOUTH CAROLINA
Greenville
Greer
Hartsville
Mount Pleasant

SOUTH DAKOTA
Rapid City

TENNESSEE
Montgomery County
Shelby County

TEXAS
Bonham
Carthage
Decatur
Denison
Duncanville

VIRGINIA
Fairfax
Fredericksburg

WASHINGTON
- Governor -
Aberdeen
Bothell
Monroe
Omak
Port Orchard
Sammamish
Snoqualmie

WEST VIRGINIA
Summersville

 

OVER 200
MUNICIPALITIES
and
25 GOVERNORS
declared
proclamations & resolutions
for Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month in February


 

 

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